Cousin Dates

Yesterday I saw my cousin Stephanie, and we went to see Wonder Woman. Sidenote, wow what a film I'm obsessed and have so many feelings. Today, my cousin Cindy who is back from living in Arizona for three years, invited me out to Cheesecake Factory. My favorite restaurant and, as expected, everything was delicious.

This was so super refreshing. How do I phrase this? I love spending time with my friends and seeing them always makes me happy. But one on one time with family is so rare and so beautiful and I was in MUCH NEED of this happy time. I love these ladies. I admire them so much. It was great to talk about deep conversations and silly stuff, and even catch up on what's going on with our lives and careers in a way that is so much more than small talk. The best thing is, as family, these people know your morals and values and upbringing and they know YOU. I genuinely wish more people had this connection with their extended family. I know it isn't common. I know that most people see relatives on the holidays and are content with just that. But I am so blessed to have my family by me at all times. And even though I don't get to see these two as often as I'd like, I love them with my whole heart. Days like these remind me how comfortable and open I can be with them, and the crazy amounts of laughing and fun we have together.

I think a lot of people dread having a significant other meet extended family. Family is always crazy. I know mine can certainly be a lot for some people. But honestly? My family is an absolute delight. And if whoever I end up with in the future can't hang? They can walk. Family first and foremost. These are the people who are there for you no matter where you go. And I know plenty of people don't have a good relationship with their blood relatives and will form those strong bonds somewhere else. I am SOOOO beyond blessed to have both. If I could, I'd share with everyone. It's a beautiful thing.